so yeah I havnt been bloging much cause I am busier than normal =D working and such. the job is great and I really enjoy doing it. I think I will be turning this into a career (Or I at least hope I get to stay with this for a couple of years)
I hear Greg and Jamie are talking to Randy about us coming up for thanksgiving. It sounds like fun, I hope it can happen.
As for living situations I found something out that I thought made me feel bad. I was talking to my Wife about us moving out of our in-laws place and getting our own (we have money saved up now and have been playing it safe with out money, even though we just got a new tv and wii)
After looking into it I found out that me and chrissy can rent a house (we dont have the credit to buy) So I found this one I liked alot and while me and her where arguing ...here is how the converstation went.
"We can't leave yet!" - C
"We are finacaly fine, we can handle it, we have *blank amount* Saved up and more in the checking... Rent prices are going down cause of the economy this place is nice and its affordable (its a place thats in the same housing area as our inlaws like a 10 min walk =P)"
"We can't leave yet!"
"Why?"
"I promised my dad we would stay till the end of the year."
So... I never knew about this arangement, It makes me upset that we are stuck here for a couple more months... but maybe not. I think a couple more months of saving couldnt hurt. But seriously can anyone blame me. I felt like a failure for living with them last time, then we got out and then I make a bad choice to work for my uncle who screwed me over and now I am here. Well I hope that in the future I will know about these kinds of agreements =/.
btw wii supersmash bros is fun.
btw again, wow expansion is coming out next month....
btw again again, Brandon sandersons mistborn series thrid book comes out today =D
dang and again, The sword of truth is now a tv show done by the guy who did spiderman, It starts showing nov. 1
thats all =D
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We're going to SEE Brandon Sanderson on Saturday at a book signing. Very cool.
Listen to your wife, it won't hurt to stay. NO ONE sees you as a failure as far as what your family did to you guys. Try praying together as a couple and then discussing it, keeping pride and emotions out of the conversation. Greg and I lived with mom and dad for a full year. It helped us financially and spiritually. It was humbling and there were hard times, but lots of fun times, too. It's better to stay in the nest and strengthen your wings then to keep falling to the ground and hoping to be rescued (I speak from EXPERIENCE!)
It is very important for you to feel like the head of your family and very important for you and Chrissy to talk about all the decisions that affect you. But you have to work it all out together,not separately.
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